Some more information on potential goals.

Develop self motivation
To make changes takes energy & commitment.  From the day that we are born, we begin our journey towards death.  Most of us don’t know when this eventuality will cross our paths and because of that we put off living our lives to full capacity.

Rediscover your uniqueness
Ask yourself this: At the end of this journey, do I want to look back with regret for those things I should have done or look back with joy & happiness at the reality of my life.

Eliminate complacency and negative mindsets
A lot of us are conditioned to think and behave in a pre determined way.  It is easy to become trapped in other peoples’ projections of how we should be living our lives.  It is wrong to believe that love, acceptance, success, closeness & salvation are all dependent on your ability to do ‘the right thing’.

Learn to use emotional & spiritual intelligence
It is important that we learn to study life methodically & to place things in the right relationship to one another as cause and effect.

Channel your inner wisdom
Humiliation, sadness, loneliness, guilt, regret, anger, fear etc are all uncomfortable feelings & it is natural to try to avoid them or pretend that they aren’t there.  But they also create our courage & wisdom. It is because of them that we grow mentally & spiritually

Learn to work with life's processes
Don’t allow the future to merely recreate the past – that is repetitive and inflexible.

Life is one big wonderful adventure.  Being a winner or loser is meaningless. It is how we play the game that counts.  The goal is an illusion, it is merely a way of guiding our journey.

We yearn for the illusion of security instead of the security of wisdom & love.

Security can only come from within.

Draw from Lifes experience without being bound by it
Better the devil you know!  How many times have you heard or said this? 

The law of the Universe is such that until such time as you have firmly closed the door on the past the stepping stones to your future remain smudged and unclear.  Unless you overcome your blockages & limitations you will be faced with them time & again, in different guises perhaps but the same old stumbling blocks until you learn the lesson.

Learn to embrace Change
When we are presented with a time of transition it means we have outgrown our current way of life.  This can be a time where we might feel lost, frightened, lonely and confused.  This is the time to be alone, to embrace our doubt and uncertainty and patiently trust in new growth.  This time is given to us to develop awareness so that we can move beyond past blockages and behaviours.